FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Yes! We are asking our guests to dress up with us! Formal wear is required to our White Wedding on 8/23/2025 (Saturday). Formal dress code for women includes, floor length gowns. For men this includes suits and tuxes (no jeans). We also ask that guests avoid colors reserved for the bride: cream, ivory, or white.

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Are kids invited?

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We love your little ones as much as you do! However, we have decided to keep our wedding adult only, with an exception to those children in the wedding.

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When should I RSVP by?

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To help us with our planning, we ask that you kindly RSVP by June 20th, 2025. After this date, our final guest list will be submitted, and we will no longer be able to accommodate any changes. No exceptions.

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Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?

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Both ceremonies are indoors.

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Where should I stay for the wedding weekend?

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We thank you wholeheartedly for traveling to celebrate with us! Please visit our website “Travel” tab to see the hotel in the area. Those listed with a block option are offering a discounted rate when you call and book under “The Agbontaen Wedding”.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We encourage guests to take photos during the ceremony, however we do ask that you are mindful of those around you as well as our professional photographers. We ask that you please refrain from entering the aisles during the ceremony and silence your phones.

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What if I can no longer attend?

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We understand that life happens, and your presence will truly be missed! We ask that you contact either the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom as soon as possible to notify the families of the change.

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What time should I arrive for the white wedding ceremony?

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Please arrive no later than 2:15pm. While we would love to see your faces at the ceremony, no one will be allowed entry into the ceremony once the bridal party has started lining up.

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What if I didn’t RSVP in time?

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If we do not receive your RSVP by the date provided, it will automatically be marked as “no”. We will miss celebrating with you, but it is imperative that we provide our vendors with a final guest count within the time they have given. Thank you for understanding.

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What is the color for the public on Saturday?

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Any shade of blue.