FAQs

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Will Victoria take Anthony's last name? Will Anthony take Victoria's?

Answer

Plot twist we changed both our names! Anthony and Victoria have decided to combine their last names to sound like the most Italian people you have ever met. DiMartino-Trapasso!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Invitations will indicate the number of people invited in your party (individual, couple, family). If you have any questions or are unsure, don't hesitate to reach out!

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What should I wear?

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Check on the itinerary page for details on what to wear to each event. If you need ideas, I'll be attaching a lookbook for inspo soon (very sorority girl of me!).

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When should I RSVP by?

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Kindly RSVP by September 19th, 2025. If you cannot attend, we will miss you, but understand that many of you are coming from outside the Syracuse area. If you do not RSVP by September 19th, unfortunately we will assume you are not able to attend. If you miss the date, we may be unable to accommodate your presence at the wedding as we will send final head counts to vendors shortly after the RSVP date.

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Will Toby be in attendance?

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Unfortunately, Toby has a prior engagement that day (can't believe he didn't check his calendar). He will not be physically in attendance, but will make an appearance in decor. Toby sends his love and the following message: "Meow meow meow, meow. Meow!"