FAQs

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What should I do if I can't make it?

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You will be dearly missed! If you can not make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "no", so that we can plan accordingly. Thank you!

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Can I bring guests/ +1's not noted on my invitation?

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We have addressed the invitations to the people we would love to come. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Please ensure that you are RSVPing for yourself and your guest. Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation.

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Is there a dress code?

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We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up with us! We are requesting a cocktail dress code for our evening. Wear whatever makes you comfortable, but please, no jeans, and don't wear white.

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How do I get to the venue?

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Because there is limited cellular service, we recommend opening Apple or Google maps on your phone, putting in the location (25921 158th Ave Ct E, Graham, WA 98338), and keeping it open until you get to the venue. If you close your app any point, it might be hard to find enough service to open it again.

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Will there be cellular service?

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Unfortunately not. However, the venue does have wifi, so please connect to it as soon as you get to the event!

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Are children invited?

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We love all of your little ones! However, due to many factors including limited space, we respectfully request that you only bring children that are included on your invitation.

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What if my child is invited and we plan to have them stay home with a sitter instead?

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That is perfectly acceptable as well! We understand parents want to have a night away sometimes and weddings are the perfect time for that. Please just RSVP as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly :)

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Is there parking near by?

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Yes! Our venue can accommodate up to 100 cars directly beside the Bridal Cottage. But please carpool if you can. To ensure safe driving after the wedding, cars can also be left overnight at the venue, but must be picked up the next morning between 9-11 AM. Additionally, we highly recommend Ubers and designated drivers!

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Can I take pictures and upload them to social media?

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YES! However, during the ceremony, it will be unplugged and we ask that everyone keeps their phones put away. During the rest of the evening though, we encourage pictures and posts tremendously, and ask that you use the hashtag "#LoveIsAllYouSmead" when posting.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Of course! We want everyone to have as much fun as possible, and we know that sometimes some people need some extra liquid courage to get on the dance floor ;)

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What should I expect for the weather?

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We expect it to be warm, but you never know with Washington! A good way to know is to keep checking on your weather app. Please also bring a light jacket to keep in your car in case the weather takes a turn for the worse.