Flight
NYC has tons of airports, but Newark International is the easiest for flights and is only a 1.5 hour car ride to the venue and hotel suggestions.
Travel Note
If you choose to rent a car or drive to Cedar Lakes Estate is a 1.5 hour drive from the greater NY/NJ area and has plenty of space for onsite parking. Additionally you can reach Cedar Lakes Estates via New Jersey Transit on the Main- Bergen County Line