FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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March 1, 2025
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Where is your wedding registry?
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Please feel free to contribute to our honeymoon or house fund via Venmo (Ishdiandra, mohkam-singh) or Zelle (909-991-8640, 248-310-0758). There will also be a card box at the events if you would like to contribute and include a note of well wishes.
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Do I have to attend all the events?
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No! We so appreciate any time you're able to give to come celebrate with us! Please RSVP accurately to each event.
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Are kids welcome?
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We would love for your little one(s) to join in the festivities at our Sangeet! Please let us know in advance if they will be attending. For the Anand Karaj and Reception, we kindly request you make arrangements for the kids to stay at home. Children of family members will be able to RSVP for each event to let us know if they are coming. Thank you!
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Is there parking at all the events?
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Yes! Plenty of parking at the mendhi/sangeet, ceremony and reception venues.
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Will there be alcohol?
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Non-alcoholic beverages will be available at all events
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What time should I arrive at the mendhi/sangeet?
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Feel free to arrive any time after 3pm. Light appetizers will be provided and dinner will be served at 5pm with performances starting at 6pm.
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What happens at a mendhi/sangeet?
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The Punjabi Sangeet has its origins in the traditional folk culture of Punjab, a region spanning parts of northern India and Pakistan. The word "Sangeet," meaning music in Sanskrit, reflects the deep-rooted practice of celebrating with music and dance in Punjab's agrarian society. A Sangeet is a lively pre-wedding celebration where the bride's and groom's families come together to mark the upcoming marriage with singing, dancing, and merrymaking. Typically held the day before the wedding, the event is filled with vibrant festivities that bring both families closer. Often, the Sangeet is combined with the Mendhi ceremony, during which intricate henna designs are applied to the bride's hands and feet. Guests can also enjoy this tradition, with henna artists available to create designs for everyone.
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What is the dress code for the mendhi/sangeet?
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Garden party attire. We will be outside, so a sweater or light jacket is recommended. Lawn games and other fun outdoor activities will also be provided, so dress appropriately to participate in the fun!
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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
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Please arrive at 9am. A light breakfast will be served before the ceremony proceedings. Lunch will be served following the ceremony
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What happens at an Anand Karaj (Sikh wedding ceremony)?
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The Sikh wedding ceremony is called Anand Karaj, which translates to "Blissful Union." This sacred ceremony represents the spiritual and emotional bond between two souls, symbolizing the couple's love and devotion to each other and to God. The ceremony is a deeply meaningful and joyous event, reflecting the couple's commitment to a shared life of spiritual growth and mutual support. At the core of the Anand Karaj is the Laavan, a series of four hymns composed by Guru Ram Das Ji, the fourth Sikh Guru. These hymns are recited as the bride and groom move clockwise around the Guru Granth Sahib, symbolizing their shared spiritual journey. Each of these 4 laavan have their own meaning and importance: First Laav: This Laav signifies the initial stage of love, where the couple is captivated by each other's presence. Second Laav: In the second Laav, the focus shifts to the idea of partnership. Third Laav: The third Laav highlights the depth of love and devotion in the relationship. Fourth Laav: The fourth and final Laav signifies the culmination of the spiritual journey as a couple. For a more in-depth understanding and other traditions to expect, please visit: https://dvnetwork.org/page/anand-karaj-the-sikh-marriage-ceremony
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What is the dress code for the ceremony?
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Please wear modest, comfortable, loose-fitting clothing covering legs and shoulders. No shoes are allowed inside. We will be seated on the floor in the Gurdwara. Please bring a head covering, otherwise one will be provided for you. Example: women - long dresses with 3/4 sleeves plus a shawl head covering; men - dress pants and shirt with a blazer plus a bandana head covering
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What time should I arrive for the reception?
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Please arrive at 6pm for appetizer hour.
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What happens at a reception?
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A lot of fun, we hope!
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What is the dress code for the reception?
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Dress to impresssssss