Herlin left everything behind in Sydney and moved to New York City in March 2023, determined to stay for two years, check off her bucket list, and return to her suburban life. Love was the last thing on her mind. But fate had other plans. Dexter had lived in New York City since 2016. Life in the big city didn't faze him, but he was always seeking someone to share his adventures with. Little did he know that this special person had just arrived from across the globe. On a dating app, a photo stopped him—a girl named Herlin in a grey t-shirt, posing by the Merlion. Looking at that photo, he thought what a pretty, bubbly and fun woman. She looks like she could be my person. He hesitated, wondering how to start a meaningful conversation, and decided to mention his time in Singapore and ask about Herlin’s travels. Herlin brushed it off. She had no time for distractions. But something about his profile—his answer to the question about his ideal Sunday—lingered in her mind: "Golf, church, and Sunday brunch." She wasn’t into golf, but the thought of finding someone who shared her faith and would lead her closer to God resonated deeply. With a hesitant swipe, she accepted the rose. Four weeks slipped by, and Dexter began to question if she was even real, as she kept postponing their date. Little did he know, she was simply trying to find her footing in a new city. For a fleeting moment, doubt crept in—maybe he should move on. But deep within, a voice whispered that she might be the one. He couldn't let go. He needed to meet her, even if only once. He became relentless in his pursuit. Unbeknownst to him, Herlin often found herself smiling at his messages, especially whenever he patiently ‘circled back’ to set a new date whenever a conflict arose in her schedule. She, too, was excited to meet this person. From the start, it was clear this wasn’t just another casual meeting. They discussed interests and travels, quickly moving to family, faith, and what a potential future together might look like. Something about the conversation felt destined. As their connection deepened, Dexter showed Herlin the pulse of New York. Every date was an adventure, every phone call was hours-long. Their bond growing stronger with every passing day. But as the days turned into weeks, a question began to gnaw at Herlin, “What are we?” Dexter’s birthday arrived and Herlin planned a surprise for the two of them. She thought, this was the moment—the moment to expose each other's feelings. Her heart raced as she asked him, “What are we doing here?” Without hesitation, Dexter replied, “Well, you're my girlfriend...” And the rest, as they say, was history...