Try not to park in the Abbey Nature Trail parking lot. Stay on the other side of the manner house. There is a large gravel parking lot that you can park in that will be reserved for the wedding guests. You can leave your vehicle in that parking lot until 11am the following day (in case you have one too many)
Anywhere you like! There will be no seating chart. There will be reserved signs on sections intended for the wedding party or immediate family members. Otherwise, seating is completely free game.
Though we love your children, our wedding will be sans children. Enjoy the night out, kid free!