Kindly respond by September 21st, 2026. Unfortunately, if we do not receive your RSVP by then, we will assume you are unable to join us. We will not be able to accommodate any RSVPs submitted after said date.
The ceremony will take place on Friday, October 16th 2026, at 4:00pm. We ask that you arrive 15-20 minutes before the ceremony begins to ensure everyone is seated before the ceremony start time.
The ceremony and reception will be held at Separk Mansion. 209 W Second Ave Gastonia, NC 28052
Formal attire — think suits or tuxedos for gentlemen and floor-length or elegant cocktail dresses for ladies. Ladies - please avoid wearing white or colors that could be mistaken for white.
We kindly ask that only the guests named on the invitation join us on our wedding day. Plus-ones are included only if listed on the invitation.
While we love your little ones, our wedding will be mostly adults-only. Children are invited only if they are specifically named on the invitation.
Your presence is the best gift we could ask for! If you’d like to give a card, we’ll have a card box at the wedding—but we ask that no other gifts be brought. If you would prefer to not bring a card, we also have a honeymoon fund set up on our registry for those who wish to contribute.