FAQs
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When is the RSVP deadline?
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Please RSVP by March 6, 2027 so we can finalize arrangements. Unfortunately, we won’t be able to accommodate guests who respond after the deadline.
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What should I wear?
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We kindly ask all guests to wear all-black semi-formal attire. Think polished and dressy, so feel free to dress to impress! 🖤 Examples for Women: - Black cocktail, midi, or simple long dresses - A dressy black jumpsuit - A black blouse with a skirt or tailored dress pants - Heels, dressy boots, or elegant flats - Simple metallic or black accessories Examples for Men: - A black suit with a black or white dress shirt - Black dress pants with a button-down shirt and blazer - A tie or bow tie is welcome but not required - Black dress shoes or polished boots Please avoid: bright colors, bold patterns, jeans, sneakers, or very casual clothing.
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Is the Venue accessible?
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The Elan is handicap accessible with the exception of the ceremony room.
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What Time Should I Arrive?
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5:15 PM: Guests arrive 5:30 PM: Ceremony begins promptly We kindly ask guests to arrive on time. Anyone arriving after the ceremony begins will be asked to wait until cocktail hour before joining the celebration.
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Can I bring a Plus One?
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Our ceremony and reception is very limited and intimate. Unfortunately, we don't have space for any guests outside of those listed on the invitation.
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Is there parking?
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The Elan provides free valet parking for all guests.
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Are you registered? Where?
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Yes, find more info on our website "Registry" page.
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If I Have Any Questions On The Day Of, Who Should I Reach Out too?
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Bride's Mother Yoselyn 201-556-8517 Maid of Honor Jasmin 201-616-6211
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What is the address? How do we get there?
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The Elan 111 Route U.S. 46 West Lodi, NJ 07644 From the South New Jersey Turnpike (I-95) North Take the New Jersey Turnpike North and follow signs for I-80 / George Washington Bridge. Take Exit 18E toward U.S. Route 46 West. Continue on U.S. Route 46 West for approximately 4 miles. The Elan will be on your right, just after Sleepy's. Garden State Parkway North Take the Garden State Parkway North to Exit 157 for U.S. Route 46. Follow signs for U.S. Route 46 East. Continue approximately 3.5 miles and take the exit for Route 17. At the bottom of the ramp, turn right and continue under the overpass. Immediately turn right toward U.S. Route 46 West. Continue approximately 1 mile to The Elan. From the North Garden State Parkway South Take the Garden State Parkway South to Exit 163 for Route 17 South. Continue on Route 17 South for approximately 4.5 miles and take the exit for Terrace Avenue. Turn right onto Pasadena Avenue, then take the second left onto Collins Avenue. Merge onto U.S. Route 46 West and continue approximately ½ mile to The Elan. From Route 17 South Take Route 17 South toward Lodi and follow the signs for Terrace Avenue. Exit onto Terrace Avenue, turn right onto Pasadena Avenue, then take the second left onto Collins Avenue. Merge onto U.S. Route 46 West and continue approximately ½ mile to The Elan. From the East / New York City George Washington Bridge Take the George Washington Bridge and follow signs for U.S. Route 46 West. From the bridge, take Exit 72B for U.S. Route 46 West. Continue on U.S. Route 46 West for approximately 7 miles. The Elan will be on your right. From the West I-80 East Take I-80 East toward New York City and take Exit 64 toward Route 17 South / U.S. Route 46. Follow signs for Route 17 South and then toward U.S. Route 46 East. Take the Terrace Avenue exit, turn right onto Pasadena Avenue, then take the second left onto Collins Avenue. Merge onto U.S. Route 46 West and continue approximately ½ mile to The Elan.
