FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by July 31st so we can finalize our guest count and seating arrangements. We appreciate you letting us know as soon as possible!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please plan to arrive at least 30 minutes before the ceremony to allow time for parking and seating. The ceremony will take place at St. Gabriel Catholic Church in Poway, which is a different location from the reception venue.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes! We kindly ask guests to wear formal attire. Suits or tuxedos for men and long dresses or formal gowns for women are encouraged. We can’t wait to celebrate with everyone dressed up! We kindly ask that all guests avoid wearing white.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There will be parking available at both the church as well as the reception location.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We’ve listed two nearby hotel options on the Travel section of our website for guests who would like to stay close to the celebration. A room block will be available for The Rancho Bernardo Inn, where we will be staying. Please feel free to book whichever option works best for you.

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What is the “Catholic gap”?

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Our ceremony will conclude around 3:00 PM, while cocktail hour at the reception venue will begin at 5:00 PM. This break in between is sometimes called the “Catholic gap.” Guests are welcome to relax, grab a drink, or explore the area before heading to the reception. The drive from the church to the reception venue is about 30 minutes, and if you arrive early there will be a water station available while you wait for cocktail hour to begin.

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Are the ceremony and reception at the same location?

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No. The ceremony will take place at St. Gabriel Catholic Church in Poway, and the reception will be held at a separate venue, The Secret Garden, about 30 minutes away.