Denise and Matt’s story began twelve years ago, when Matt caught Denise’s gaze across the room at the beginning of a church service and introduced himself. As teenagers, they dated on and off as they grew up alongside each other within a shared community of friends. Their relationship underwent seasons of challenge and growth throughout these years as they learned to love each other in a deeper and more selfless way. They fought for the best for each other and as they grew, their love grew with them. While their partnership had been growing in cycles and waves over these years, it especially flourished during Denise’s years away at UCLA. The challenge of distance demanded more from them if they were to continue a life together, and they rose to the occasion with even greater appreciation for the days they shared. Matt often created time for Denise where there seemingly was none, driving to Westwood after a long shift of work for just an hour or two of shared laughter and ice cream and talking about all that life could hold for them together. The dreams that they gave life throughout these years have already started to take shape, with Denise currently excelling in her Master’s program to become a Family Nurse Practitioner and Matt towards the end of his Master’s to become an educator while union organizing. The two can often be found studying quietly beside one another, in deep conversation over how to improve our systems and world, in the company of longtime friends, or curled up on the couch with a cup of coffee still dreaming of all that’s to come. These are the days they fought for throughout those hard-wrought years, and this is a love they cultivated through struggle and hope and always choosing to stand beside each other. It’s a love that’s weathered changes and storms and has proven time and time again to always be worth it.

As the times have changed our wedding plans in significant ways, one thing that has not changed is our desire to have our close family and friends present for our big day. We struggled to condense our guest list as we both have so many people in our lives who we'd love to have to support us, but sadly we are limited due to safety concerns. All that we ask on this day is for you to bring your support as we become one. We are lucky enough to already have nearly everything we need for this new chapter together, so any gifts offered will be humbly accepted, but are not necessary. We plan to maintain everyone's safety on this day by social distancing the seating of the ceremony and the reception. Masks are welcome for anybody who feels compelled to wear one during the ceremony. Each party will be seated with people as close to their quarantine circle as possible, we will make our rounds to see each group. If you are experiencing symptoms during the week, please let us know. Thank you all so much for being willing to prioritize the safety and well being of each person in attendance. It will be HOT so bring an umbrella, sunhat, misters/fan. We are so excited to share our wedding day memories with you. Twelve years has gone by so quickly for us (but not really) so our union, though will be small, is all we ever wanted and are so eager to begin.