FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by May 15th, 2026 with your meal selection to confirm your attendance and help us plan accordingly. Please do so under the RSVP section of this website for both the ceremony and reception events. If the internet overwhelms you and breaks your brain…well you already found our website so you’re halfway there. Keep clicking around! But if you must do so, you may contact your millennial bride and groom for technical assistance.
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Are you registered? Where?
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Please see the Registry section of this website to view our registry through Amazon. Thank you in advance for your generosity!
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Our wedding ceremony will start promptly at 5:30 PM. Please ensure you arrive early enough to be seated at this time. We recommend 20-30 minutes before the ceremony begins. Our ceremony will be brief and late arrivals may be asked to perform a jig down the aisle as a form of public humiliation. (Just kidding, but please do not arrive late!)
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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?
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We kindly request that guests do not take photos and that they put their phone out of sight during the ceremony. We have a professional photographer to capture every moment so we can unplug and enjoy!
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What happens if it rains?
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Our ceremony will remain on site and move indoors in the event of rain. Cross your fingers and toes for Pure Michigan’s weather to behave for us!
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Is there a dress code?
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Our dress code is formal attire. This includes suits and ties and ankle or floor-length dresses. This is not the event to rock your brand new pair of mom jeans or men’s New Balance Shoes. Sorry!
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Can I bring a date?
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To keep our celebration intimate, we're only able to include the guests formally invited on your envelope. Thank you for understanding!
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Are kids welcome?
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Delaney is a teacher and she is sick of kids. Just kidding! However, to keep our celebration intimate, we are only able to include the guests (including children) formally invited on your envelope. Thank you for understanding!
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What food will be served for dinner?
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In addition to the entree you select, guests will also be served the following: Ceasar Salad Roasted Garlic Mashed Potatoes Seasonal Mix Grilled Vegetables New York Cheesecake with Strawberry Coulis (cupcakes also available for those who don’t share our love of cheesecake) Hope this helps plan accordingly for those who need to make a McDonald’s run beforehand. Pick up some nuggets for Thomas, please!
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I have a food allergy. Can I make a special request?
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When you RSVP to our reception, please view the food selections. If dietary restrictions prevent you from eating any of the provided options, please contact the bride or groom to make special arrangements before the RSVP deadline. And no, “allergic to all the options except for chicken fingers” is not a real dietary restriction and you will have to pick an adult meal if you are over 12. Trust me, Thomas already tried pulling this.
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Will there be alcohol?
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Yes, we will have an open bar for all of our guests to enjoy complimentary beer and wine throughout the event.
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Is there parking for the ceremony and reception?
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Complimentary self-parking is included at the venue for wedding guests. Electric chargers are available in the venue’s parking lot for Teslas only. Thomas is sad that he cannot charge his spaceship of a car here. Please keep him in your thoughts.
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Did Thomas approve of all the jokes you made at his expense during this FAQ section?
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Yes, because I would like our marriage to last!