FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by April 25th 2026.
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Am I allowed to bring a plus one?
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Our wedding is strictly RSVP only. We will only able to accommodate those listed on your invitation.
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Can I bring my children?
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We love your kids, but we thought you might want a night off. Adults only please! If you need baby-sitting services, Guardian Angel Sitting Services provides childcare in Cape May and the surrounding area.
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What is the dress code? What should I wear?
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Our wedding is a formal affair. Gentlemen are strongly encouraged to wear a suit and tie, while ladies can opt for a floor-length gown or formal cocktail dress. Please note that our entire wedding will be outdoors on a grassy lawn, so we suggest women wear flats or wedges to prevent heels from sticking in the ground. No jeans or hats please. We hope that you see our big day as an opportunity for you to dress up and dance the night away with us!
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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There is very little parking available at the venue. We encourage all our guest to take the shuttle provided or to use a taxi service, Lyft or Uber.
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Will transportation be provided?
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We will be providing transportation to and from the venue. We encourage all our guests to take the shuttle to the venue as there is limiting parking spaces at the venue. Please see more about the transportation on the travel page.
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When will the reception end? Will there be an after-party?
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The reception will be ending around 10pm. Please feel free to join the newlyweds at Carney's after the reception.
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How do I get around Cape May?
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Cape May is a very walkable and bikeable. The city of Cape May also provides a free shuttle service throughout the city. For more information on this shuttle please see the link below: https://www.capemaycity.com/departments/Recreation/CapeMayFreeShuttle
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Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?
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We are requesting an unplugged ceremony. Please turn off all electronic devices during the ceremony. When the ceremony is complete, feel free to take all the photos you would like!