The deadline to RSVP is July 20th, 2026. If we don’t hear from you by then, we’ll assume you’ve chosen Netflix over us (ouch). Save us from heartbreak, and yourself from missing out on free food, by letting us know you’re coming before the deadline.
We love and appreciate so many people in our lives, but our wedding is small and intimate. That means our guest list had to stay very limited (trust us, it was not easy). We truly wish we could celebrate with everyone we care about, but space, budget, and sanity don’t always agree. If you received an invitation, it means we can’t imagine saying “I do” without you there.
We will truly miss you! We completely understand that not everyone can make it to a destination wedding. Even if you can’t be there in person, you’ll be in our hearts on the big day. To make sure you don’t miss a moment, we’ll be live-streaming the ceremony so you can tune in and celebrate with us from afar.
We’re going for semi-formal vibes - so break out your best cocktail attire or a sharp suit, but don’t stress about being overly fancy. Since the ceremony is on grass, stilettos might just turn into lawn darts (and we don’t want that for you!), so opt for wedges, block heels, or flats instead. One small request: please steer clear of rust and burnt orange - we promise the wedding party has that covered.
If your plans undergo a plot twist, no worries - just let us know by July 24th, 2026 (the RSVP deadline). After that, our caterer turns into a pumpkin, and we can’t make changes.
Absolutely, kids are welcome to join the celebration! We just ask that they’re included in the total number of guests on your invitation so we can plan accordingly. Can’t wait to celebrate with you and your whole family!
Unless your invitation specifically says you’ve been allotted a “plus one,” then the answer is… nope! We’re keeping things small and intimate, and our guest list is already tighter than skinny jeans after Thanksgiving dinner. So if you were hoping to surprise us with a mystery guest - please don’t, we like surprises in cake form only.
Yes, there will be alcohol! We’ll have an open bar ready after the ceremony. Our venue doesn’t allow outside alcohol, and with security around, it’s really not worth testing your smuggling skills.