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I knew Deborah was the woman God created for me when peace settled in my heart every time we spoke. It wasn’t just about how she made me feel—it was about how she made me better. The way she listened, how she prayed, how she saw the good in people—it felt like God was showing me what love was meant to look like. But there was a moment that stood out: one evening, we were talking about our dreams, fears, and faith. And it just clicked—I saw my future, and she was in it. Not as a maybe, not as a question mark, but as the answer. In that moment, I didn’t just feel love—I felt purpose. That’s when I knew.
Of all of Deborah’s amazing qualities, the one that stood out to me the most was her strength wrapped in gentleness. She carries herself with a quiet confidence that doesn’t need to be loud to be felt. Her words are thoughtful, her spirit is calm, and yet there’s a fire in her faith and a steadiness in the way she loves. It’s the way she shows up—not just when it’s easy, but especially when it’s hard. That kind of strength—the kind that comforts, uplifts, and leads with grace—is rare. And in her, it’s natural. That’s what captured me.
What we are most looking forward to about marriage is building a life—together. Not just the big moments, like milestones and celebrations, but the small, everyday things. Waking up and knowing we’re on the same team. Growing through challenges, laughing over nothing, praying side by side, and creating a home that reflects both love and faith. It’s the partnership—knowing that whatever life brings, I won’t be facing it alone. We’ll have each other. And there’s something really powerful about that kind of unity—where love is both the foundation and the future.
Deborah, from now until the day we become one, I want you to carry this in your heart: You are deeply loved—not just by me, but by a God who crafted every part of you with intention and grace. Every day we walk closer to forever, I see more of His purpose in you and in us. There may be moments of stress, waiting, or uncertainty, but remember—we’re not walking toward the altar alone. God is guiding each step. I pray that His peace surrounds you, His joy fills you, and His love sustains you. Know this: I’m with you. I’m praying for you. And I’m preparing for the honor of loving you, leading with you, and serving God beside you. Our journey is sacred, and I’m counting down the days until I can call you my wife.
heldon, as we journey toward becoming one, I want you to know how proud I am to walk this path with you. Every day, I thank God for choosing you for me—for your heart, your leadership, your patience, and the way you love me with intention and care. From now until the day we say “I do,” I pray that you feel covered in peace, strengthened by purpose, and reminded daily that God is with you—guiding your steps, shaping your heart, and preparing you to lead our family with grace. You don’t have to carry everything on your own. I’m here—praying with you, believing in you, and standing beside you. And even in the moments when things feel heavy or uncertain, know this: God has already written our story, and His timing is perfect. Keep trusting, keep leading, and keep showing up as the man God called you to be. I see you. I admire you. And I can’t wait to become your wife.