DEB This young handsome man sent me a message on Instagram. It was so courteous and respectful. I normally would ignore messages from people I do not know but for some reason his made me smile (blush more like) and so I replied. Best Instagram decision I ever made! Now I’m marrying the best guy! TJ I saw a really pretty picture and decided to go for it. I normally don’t message random people, but this one just seemed different. She replied me, and the conversation flowed so well. We chatted for hours after and here we are today!

DEB From the first day we met in person, I knew I wanted to be with TJ forever. He felt the same way too, so there was no official proposal, just a "should we get married Deborah?" and an ensuing of plans. I came home in May for our "introduction" and a proposal had still not happened. I was obviously getting antsy. We are planning a wedding without a ring or an official proposal. It was so odd. On the day of the Introduction, after it had ended, I was reveling in the joy of the moment when my girls started to scream, I was super confused when I felt a tap on my back. I turned around and saw TJ on one knee with the most beautiful and thoughtful ring. I didn't even let the poor man say anything, i ran up to hug him and just kept saying yes and asking him to get up. I ran into the kitchen afterwards and cried hot girl tears. It was the most beautiful moment shared in front of family and friends turned family. TJ Deb dropped so many hints, I knew her ring size, what kind of ring she wanted and all the details, honestly she made it so easy for me but it was definitely worth it. I always told her, after her shakara she would eventually come and collect my ring. I was quite nervous on the day of the introduction, but seeing her happy was the main goal and it was perfect. I waited until a moment when I knew she was no longer really expecting it. She had spoken to my best friend earlier that day asking if she knew anything about a ring. LOL. She was backing me doing something on her phone when I went down on one knee. I had planned a lot of things I wanted to say, but just hearing her say yes did it for me. I texted her the things I wanted to say after though. We honestly cant wait to start our lives together.