FAQs

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Where is the ceremony?

Answer

Ceremony will take place on the lawn of the Sagamore Inn. Park in the lot and follow the signs!

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Is there a shuttle or transportation to the venue?

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Nope! Plenty of parking on site. Its the cape in September so there will be plenty of ubers and lyfts in the area as summer has just finished winding down.

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Can we bring our kids?

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Short answer: No thank you. While we love all the little humans that our friends and family have made for us to play with, we would love the opportunity to just party with their parents for the night. If you need local babysitter recommendations, reach out to the bride or groom and they will help get something arranged for you!

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What is the dress code?

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Garden Formal. Think floor length dresses but no need for black tie gowns. If you wear jeans or white, our friends will "accidentally" dump red wine on you.

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Will there be an open bar?

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We are both firemen. That inherently means we are broke. BUT since we know most of our attendees are also broke firemen, we will split the difference and cover your drinks during cocktail hour. The rest is on you so, bring cash and tip handsomely.

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Do I get a plus one?

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While the couple is pretty outgoing and don't mind meeting new people, the day of the wedding is not the day for that. So, we are keeping the guest list to people addressed on the invites only. If you're unsure, ask anyone in the bridal party other than the bride or groom for confirmation because they are people pleasers and will cave and they can't afford that.

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Who should you contact if you have a question not answered here?

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12+ months out: Emily or Dean 3-12 months out: Emily (Dean will have tuned out by this point) 1-3 months out: Any of the wedding party. Within the week: Give it to God.