FAQs

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What is the dress code ?

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This is a formal event and we would love to see our family and friends dress up with us! Our dress code is Black Tie Optional. For women, this means formal mid or full length dresses. And for the men, suits or tuxedos are encouraged.

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Can I bring a Plus 1?

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Unfortunately, due to limited space and to keep our wedding as intimate as possible, we are only able to accommodate those listed on your invitation. If you received a plus one, their name will appear on your invitation and your RSVP details. Thank you for understanding!

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Can I bring my kids?

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As much as we love your children, our wedding is for adults (21+) only. We hope you can understand!

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What time should I arrive?

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Please arrive at least 30 minutes prior to the ceremony to find parking and your seat. Once the ceremony begins, entrance into the church will not be granted until the ceremony is complete.

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Where is the main entrance at Ballroom at the Ben?

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The Ballroom at the Ben is located within the Benjamin Franklin House at the corner of Ninth and Chestnut. The entrance to the Ballroom is on the Ninth Street side of the building, between Sansom and Chestnut Streets.

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What should I do if I have dietary restrictions?

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Please let us know on the RSVP form, and we will make sure the catering team takes care of you.

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When should I RSVP by?

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We kindly ask that you RSVP by February 20, 2026 to ensure that we can finalize our guest count with our vendors. We look forward to celebrating with you!

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How can I RSVP?

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You can RSVP directly on this website. Click the RSVP tab located at the top of the page. If you have any issues, feel free to reach out to us!

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What if I don't RSVP on time?

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Unfortunately, if we do not receive your RSVP by February 20, 2026, then it will automatically be marked as "not attending". This deadline is preset by our venue as they need an official head count. We will miss celebrating with you and thank you for understanding!