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August 31, 2025
Nashville, TN

The Oldham's

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What should I wear to the wedding?

Answer

As part of our wedding vision, we kindly request that our guests dress in formal attire featuring shades of tans and browns. We kindly ask you to avoid wearing white or ivory. For Men: Suits or dress shirt and slacks in tan, brown, or similar tones. For Women: We encourage formal attire, cocktail or silk dresses, or elegant separates in tan, brown, or similar tones. A guest attire guide will be sent out to guests at a later date.

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Can I bring a gift to the wedding?

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Yes! We will have a designated table at the reception for gifts. For your convenience, there is also a registry tab on our wedding website where you can contribute to our cash funds or purchase directly through our Amazon registry before the big day. We’re so excited to celebrate with you and truly appreciate you being part of our special day!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to our venue capacity, we can only accommodate those guests maned on your RSVP. If you receive a plus one, it will appear under your name when you RSVP. There will be no exceptions.

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Is it okay to take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that you join us in having an "unplugged" ceremony, meaning we request no pictures or videos be taken by guests during this special moment. We've hired amazing talents to beautifully capture the occasion for everyone.

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Are kids allowed at the wedding?

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No, this will be an adults-only celebration.

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Do I need to RSVP if I’m not attending?

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Yes, it’s important to RSVP even if you’re not attending so we can finalize guests count and plans. RSVP's will open once invitations have been sent out. If you’re unable to RSVP by the deadline, we’ll assume you can’t attend and will regretfully need to exclude you from our final guest count.

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Will there be parking available at the wedding venue?

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Yes. The venue offers free public parking for those who choose to drive however, we highly recommend using rideshare services like Uber or Lyft. In the event you drove to the venue and need to use a rideshare service after the reception, overnight parking is permitted at the venue without any risk of parking violations or towing.

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Which hotels do you recommend?

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We have listed recommended hotels under the "Travel" tab. We’ve reserved room blocks at some of the hotels listed for your convivence. If you prefer other options, there are also several hotels in the area.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Absolutely! Your comfort and safety are important to us. Please let us know about your food allergy when you RSVP, and we will do our best to accommodate your needs. If you have any concerns, feel free to reach out to us directly.

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