Yes, you definitely need to RSVP, please! We'll let you know the exact cut-off date as soon as we have it, but the sooner you can RSVP, whether it’s yes or no, the better. Our reception will be a seated dinner, so we need a complete and final headcount to ensure everything runs smoothly. If you’re having trouble RSVP’ing on our website, please reach out to us directly. Thank you!
We're so excited to celebrate with all of our loved ones, little ones included. While our wedding celebration is designed with adults in mind, we want to make sure everyone is accommodated and comfortable. Please reach out to us directly if your children will be joining you. This will allow us to coordinate children's meals and explore the possibility of providing a nanny service at the wedding for those interested. Knowing the number of children attending as soon as possible will greatly help us with our planning.
For the wedding on Saturday, we’re aiming for a festive formal atmosphere, so we encourage you to use this as an opportunity to dress up and join the fun! For Men: Think sharp and stylish. Dress pants, a collared shirt and tie are great. A suit jacket is optional, keep in mind it will likely be warm during the day but may cool down at night. For Women: a nice formal but festive dress, whether it’s long or cocktail length would be wonderful! Think fun colors, patterns and fabrics. I do recommend a light sweater or shawl for the evening just in case the wind picks up.
Our cocktail party on Friday and brunch on Sunday are casual events! But for Friday, to add a little more festive flair, we’re asking our guests to wear white! This can be a white top with any colored pants or jeans, or a white dress.
Something comfortable! There will be a calenda (parade) from the church to the venue where we will walk and dance through the streets of Oaxaca. Although the walk will be short, keep in mind the floor is uneven cobblestones. If you choose to wear heels, we’d recommend either a small block heel or wedge. You may even want to bring a small tote to carry some more comfortable shoes in to switch into.
Our wedding ceremony will be a traditional Catholic Mass, conducted entirely in Spanish, and will last about one hour. It includes readings, prayers, and our vows. We invite you to experience this beautiful and sacred liturgy with us. Please keep in mind that the quiet nature and echoes in the church can sometimes be challenging for our youngest guests. If your toddler or infant gets restless, we suggest sitting close to an aisle or exit in case they need a break. The church processional will begin very promptly at 4:30 PM. To ensure you're seated before we begin, please arrive at least 20 minutes early, as entry won't be permitted until after the processional is complete. The wedding calenda (parade) will immediately follow the ceremony, after exiting the church.
Please note Santo Domingo enforces a strict no-flash photography policy inside the church in order to preserve the fragile frescoes. We kindly ask you to please be respectful of this and make sure your flash is off. We’d also personally love for you all to be present during the procesional. It would mean so much to us to see your smiling faces as we walk down the aisle! You’ll have plenty of opportunities to take pictures after the processional! The ceremony will be an hour long.
A calenda is a festive Oaxacan wedding parade, a vibrant and joyous tradition that dates back to the colonial era. It's a way to celebrate the union of two people with music, dance, and community. Think of it as a walking party that moves through the streets, inviting everyone to join in the celebration! Here's what you can expect during our wedding calenda: A lively procession: We'll parade from the church to our wedding venue, led by a traditional brass band playing upbeat music. (Note the distance won’t be very far, only about a block). Giant puppets: You'll see "monos,” which are large, whimsical puppets representing the bride and groom. Mezcal: Expect to be offered shots of mezcal, a traditional Oaxacan spirit, as you walk along. It's a way to toast the happy couple and join in the merriment. Dancing: Make sure to wear your dancing shoes! We're so excited to share this special tradition with you and create unforgettable memories together!
Oaxaca has many lodging choices to choose from! See the travel tab for our hotel recommendations, however, there are numerous hotels and Air BnBs to choose from. Wherever you choose, we recommend staying in the main Centro area - no more south than El Zocalo, and no more north than our wedding venue. You won’t want to stay too many blocks east or west from el andador turístico. The closer the better. This will ensure you’re centrally located and can walk to all the main restaurants and attractions. Please reach out to us directly for further advice or to ask about a certain hotel!
No - it’s not needed! The church where our ceremony will be held and the wedding venue are walking distance from each other (about 300 meters). If you need transportation to get to the church from your hotel, there are many Taxis nearby and should only be a few dollars.
Regular taxi cabs are not available from the airport. (You can take a yellow Taxi to the airport, but not from the airport). Uber/Lyft is also not available in Oaxaca. The cheapest way to get to your hotel is walk to the Blue Taxi sign inside the airport terminal (it’s the closest to the exit door) and take a shared taxi van. It’s a fun way to see the city and doesn’t usually take very long. You can alternatively ask your hotel if they offer transport services or book one online. Ask us if you have questions on this!
February is a great time to visit Oaxaca as it is comfortably warm and isn’t rainy season. Note the sun is stronger here than you may be used to, even in February, so don’t forget your sunscreen. The evenings are generally nice, but can occasionally be a bit windy and chilly. I’d recommend having a light jacket or shawl with you. (Note our wedding venue is outdoors).
Walking! We recommend staying in a central location so you can walk to everything. It’s truly the best way to see Oaxaca as there are so many little hidden shops and restaurants you’d otherwise probably just drive by. If you do want to go a bit further or cut down on time, take a taxi. There are abundant yellow taxis driving around el centro, and it’s very cheap. Going anywhere within el centro is typically under $5 USD. Make sure to carry pesos with you.
Oaxaca is known as a foodie paradise, famed for its rich culinary traditions and diverse flavors. Some of the most popular dishes include: * Tlayudas: Large, crispy tortillas topped with beans, cheese, meat, and vegetables. * Mole Negro: A complex and flavorful sauce made with chilies, chocolate, and spices. * Chapulines: Toasted grasshoppers, a regional delicacy. * Memelitas: Small, thick corn tortillas topped with various ingredients like cheese and black beans. * Garnachas Istmeñas: Small, fried corn tortillas topped with shredded meat, cabbage, and salsa. There are SO many places to eat in Oaxaca, I don’t think we’ve ever had a bad meal here. For a list of our recommendations and personal notes, see this Google Maps list https://maps.app.goo.gl/PNh4DAUcWiovGWk47?g_st=i
Most definitely. While some of the bigger restaurants and bars do offer credit card payment, many of the smaller shops, taxis, and street vendors are cash only. I recommend exchanging dollars into pesos before your trip. There are plenty of banks in el centro you can use your debit card at to pull more cash if need be as well.