It seems a God driven intervention. We could've kicked it off in person but someone didn't want to come to my family event. Either way that same day Derrick considered coming over I jacked Effrem, my cousin and his friend, up and asked him to find my husband. Derrick had already told Effrem he was looking to settle down. It took a whole month but finally we were on the phone. Derrick had already left to go back overseas. So it was emails and phone calls for months. After a few months Derrick told me he intended on marrying me. I didn't believe him. He came home in January and we kicked it off. It was a tiny flame that turned into a forest fire. When he had to leave Bridgette wanted to know when he intended on returning. We've been inseparable aside from his work since.