FAQs

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What is the attire for the wedding?

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Elevated, vibrant and celebration ready! Colorful, resort attire is preferred. Ceremony is held on the sand, however it is packed and any shoes should be okay. The ceremony and reception are both outdoors.

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Where do I park?

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Kona Kai offers paid valet or there are options to street park on Shelter Island Drive.

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What does LGBTQIA+ stand for?

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LGBTQIA+ stands for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer/Questioning, Intersex, Asexual, and the "+" includes other identities such as pansexual, nonbinary, and more.

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What does “lesbian-inclusive” mean for this wedding?

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This wedding honors and celebrates lesbian love—boldly, joyfully, and unapologetically. You’ll notice language, traditions, and choices that reflect and affirm lesbian identity. We also welcome and respect all gender identities and expressions, and invite guests to show up as their full, authentic selves. Whether it’s attire, pronouns, or dance floor vibes, this is a space where love leads the way.

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Why is this important to Danielle and Carly?

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This wedding celebrates love and authenticity. Creating a safe and affirming space for all guests is part of that celebration.