Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
We love your kids—we really do. If your invitation says 'Mr. & Mrs. & Family' that's our way of letting you know we would love to have your kids busting a move on the dance floor with us!