FAQs
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What kind of ceremony is this?
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Our ceremony is a handfasting, a symbolic tradition where two people join hands and are bound together with ribbons or cords to represent unity, commitment, and choice. It will be heartfelt, inclusive, and easy to follow. Handfasting is an ancient ceremonial tradition that dates back hundreds of years, with roots in Celtic, Norse, and early European cultures. The term comes from the Old English phrase meaning “to bind by the hand.” In early communities, handfasting was a recognized way for couples to declare their intention to marry. The couple’s hands were joined and bound with cords or ribbons, symbolizing trust, commitment, and the joining of two lives. In some regions, handfasting marked an engagement period, while in others it served as a full and legally recognized marriage. Today, handfasting is embraced as a meaningful, symbolic ritual. It represents love freely chosen, partnership, and the weaving together of two paths into one shared journey.
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What is Ostara?
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Ostara is a spring celebration that honors balance, renewal, and new beginnings, observed around the Spring Equinox when day and night are equal. We chose Ostara to reflect the start of our marriage and the growth we’re committing to together.
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Do we need to participate in any rituals?
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No participation is required beyond being present and supportive. There may be moments of reflection or symbolism, but guests are welcome to simply observe and enjoy.
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Is there a dress code?
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Please dress semi-formal to formal and comfortable. Most importantly—wear something you feel good in! Traditional Ostara Colors: Fresh greens – new growth, fertility, renewal Soft yellows – sunlight, hope, returning warmth Pastels – baby pink, lavender, pale blue, peach White or cream – balance, purity, fresh starts Earth tones – light brown, taupe, moss, clay Dark Enchanted Ostara Colors: Deep emerald & forest green – the Beast’s garden, rebirth Burgundy & wine red – the enchanted rose, devotion Midnight blue – twilight sky, mystery Antique gold – candlelight, magic, royalty Black softened with texture – lace, velvet, embroidery Your kids may wear whatever they desire, from a little Prince/Princess to a Nymph or Fairy, take advantage and have fun with it!
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Are children welcome?
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As per your invites, children are welcome. We ask that parents help keep little ones comfortable during the event. We also plan to provide a little section for them to enjoy.
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What time should we arrive?
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Please plan to arrive 15–30 minutes early to allow time for settling in before the ceremony begins. Especially if you are driving and need time to find parking.
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Are gifts expected?
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Your presence truly means the world to us. If you wish to give a gift, details will be listed in our registry section.
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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?
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Yes. If you are traveling from out of town and plan to stay near the venue, please let us know so we can arrange transportation for you. If you are local and plan to enjoy the celebration, please let us know as well—we’ll make sure you get to and from the venue safely.
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Yes, of course. Your health and comfort are important to us. Please let us know about any food allergies or dietary restrictions when you RSVP, and we will do our best to accommodate your needs.
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What happens if the weather changes?
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Our celebration will be held indoors. We have a plan in place to ensure the ceremony is beautiful and comfortable, rain or shine.
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP as soon as possible so that we can plan accordingly. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
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Who can we contact with questions?
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If you have any questions before the big day, please reach out to either one of us: Daniel: dan.cuevas1988@gmail.com or 201 - 838 - 8481 Milena: milenadizenfeld@gmail.com or 646 - 341 - 7858
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Will there be an alcohol?
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This venue allows a BYOB (Bring Your Own Bottle/Beer/Booze), guests can bring what they would like to drink and the bartender will keep them behind the bar, we will make sure each bottle is labeled with your table number. Soft drinks, juices, and water will be provided by us.
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Directions To The Venue?
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Cesar’s Hall 561-60th St., West New York, NJ 07093 • (201) 978-8821 • (201) 453-9077 Turnpike North (Staten Island, Brooklyn, South Jersey) Exit 16 W to Kennedy Blvd., 60th St. Cesar’s Hall is 4 blocks to your right. Parkway North (Newark and Union City) Exit 153A Rt. 3 East to Kennedy Blvd. Make a right at 60th St. Cesar’s Hall is 4 blocks to your right. Parkway South (New York State, North Jersey) Exit 163, Rt 17 South to Rt 3 East Exit Kennedy Blvd. Make right on 60th St. Cesar’s Hall is 4 blocks on right. George Washington Bridge (Long Island and The Bronx) Take US-1 / US-46 Exit 72B. Turn left at 46 W/ US-95 turn right onto Bergen Blvd. Continue to Kennedy Blvd. Turn left 60th St. Cesar’s Hall is 4 blocks to your right. Lincoln Tunnel (Manhattan) Take NY - 495W Enter next round about and take 1st exit onto Kennedy Blvd. Make a right at 60th. Cesar’s Hall is 4 blocks to your right. Route 80 East (Paterson, Morristown, Western Jersey) Follow I-80 East towards NY City. Take Exit 53 to Rt. 46 East. Take the Exit to Rt. 3 East, then take Exit JF Kennedy Blvd. Make a right at 60th, Cesar’s Hall is 4 blocks to your right.
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Is parking available?
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Valet parking is not available, however there are two municipal parking lots near the venue. ~ 59th St. Madison Ave (Behind Footlocker). ~ 61st Van Buren Pl (Behind Las Palmas).
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Are there hotels nearby?
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Yes, here are some recommendations near the venue. 1. Courtyard by Marriott Edgewater NYC Area 3 Pembroke Place, Edgewater, NJ 07020 2. Residence Inn by Marriott Weehawken Port Imperial 100 Ferry Way, Weehawken, NJ 07086 3. Sheraton Lincoln Harbor Hotel 500 Harbor Boulevard, Weehawken, NJ 07086 4. Holiday Inn Express North Bergen – Lincoln Tunnel 2600 Tonnelle Avenue, North Bergen, NJ 07047 5. Super 8 by Wyndham North Bergen / NYC Area 2800 Columbia Avenue, North Bergen, NJ 07047 6. Hyatt Place Secaucus / Meadowlands 575 Park Plaza Drive, Secaucus, NJ 07094 7. Home2 Suites by Hilton Hasbrouck Heights 377 NJ-17, Hasbrouck Heights, NJ 07604