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November 1, 2025
Durham, NC

Dani & Thom

FAQs

Any questions not addressed here? Just reach out!
Question

How did y'all meet?

Answer

Our mutual friend hosted a costume party to celebrate her birthday. Dani went as a witch and Thom as a wizard, cuing Thom's opening line: "I see you got the memo about the pointy hats." We got coffee the following weekend, and the rest is history!

Question

Why get married in the backyard?

Answer

Because it's perfect for both of us - outside for Thom and at home for Dani!

Question

Where should I stay?

Answer

While we did not book a hotel block due to our small out-of-town guest count, our home is a convenient ten minutes from downtown Durham, which has many hotel options. In fact, our dinner spot, NanaSteak, is on the same block as the Aloft Durham Downtown.

Question

What are the dinner options?

Answer

All guests will be able to select from a limited preset menu with vegetarian/vegan options available. The meal is three courses with non-alcoholic drinks included.

Question

Will there be an open bar?

Answer

No, but there will be bar service available for those who wish to have individual tabs.

Question

Wait, how many reptiles?

Answer

13!

Question

Why?

Answer

Because they're the perfect pet.