He’s was invited to minister in songs during my induction into Adventist students fellowship and that was the first time I saw him. I realized he was childhood friends with my friend (Norris) and I followed her to say hi to her friend who was a good singer. Well, he acted like semi Jesus and I wasn’t going to please anyone so I left like the stranger that I was. Along the line, as the music director of the fellowship, he started frequently communicating with my father who was the staff adviser of the fellowship for Choir concerts, ministration at Govt programs etc. As a daddy’s girl who loves music, daddy will always carry me. At the same time, my mum developed a level of kindness for his group (as young students wey love Jesus 😂). I can’t recall how we got our contact but I kinda recall we had a chit-chat and the rest is history😂😂 We met again in Abuja and subconsciously formed a group of Adventist friends. Friends share their problems with each other and that was what I did and hard girl fell in love😁. I started up unsure and trying to be safe with all the chaos and later realized it was meant to be.
Funny how I never said a word to this babe in ASF-MOUAU that year... She was forming one thing-one thing like that and as a guy man I had to maintain my composure. I'd see her in church and just remove my face😏😏 but somehow her parents were closer to me, as her papa (my father-in-law) happened to be my staff adviser and her mum was always giving me food whenever there was an event in their church and I happen to visit. I don't even know how I got her contact but we had one short, funny and interesting chat in 2021, then we met in the same church in Abuja. I observed how free spirited she was, very accommodating yet firm with her boundaries. We found each other amongst the same circle of friends and she invited us for lunch one day and all I was shouting in my head as we ate that egusi soup was omo!🤣🤣🤣 The girl ji ofe egusi kpofe m into my next level. We just vibed alongside others and one day monkey go market e no come back😜😜 But who be monkey inside this story now??..... Guys I was hoping she will give me the soup again when I visited her for the first time(alone) and this babe intentionally didn't give me even water to drink 😥😥😥 Instead she said "I will take you out and buy you fish", a whole me! The only hope of my village(ahushielam anya o, ndi k'anyi) Well, well, this girl challenged my life in a very positive way and pushed me to do things that were really beyond my limits and yes my life really changed for better (I won't share the details here). There is joy in getting married to a well-bred Seventh-Day Adventist-Ngwa girl --- The way our thoughts aligned was nothing short of magical believe me. So lemme share one Experience; I wanted to take my baby out o, like a Gen-z boyfriend and started thinking pizza, shawarma, fancy restaurants and all. Babe asked me "where can we get banga soup?" I just smiled and took her to Village Chief and yes, we spent 12k on something we both couldn't finish 😂😂😂 Our journey had a very chaotic start and we have held each other's hands through and through. In these past few years, I have felt a deeper and stronger connection with God and I dont wanna let go baby. Na me and you for life. I can't wait for the part when they say "YOU MAY KISS YOUR BRIDE" 🤗🤗🤗