FAQs

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Am I invited to both events?

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YES! We want all of our loved ones to celebrate with us the entire weekend. All guests are welcome to attend the Nigerian ceremony on Friday as well as the American ceremony on Saturday.

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What happens at a Nigerian ceremony?

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An Igbo traditional wedding (Igba Nkwu) is a joyous and vibrant culturally rich celebration of family, culture, and love. Be prepared for a festive event filled with color, music, and delicious food. Expect to see a dazzling array of traditional Igbo clothing. The bride and groom often wear "isiagu" fabric, richly decorated with patterns. Guests will wear their own traditional attire, contributing to a visually stunning event. "Asoebi" is also very common, where groups of friends and family wear matching fabrics. Igbo weddings are very family-centric. Both the bride and groom's extended families play crucial roles. There will be formal presentations and exchanges between the families. Expect to eat, drink and be merry as Igbo weddings are known for their abundant and delicious food. Music and dancing are integral to the celebration so expect lively traditional music and contemporary Nigerian hits. Everyone is encouraged to participate and celebrate with the couple. For Asoebi information, please contact Jovita Oruwari at 314-703-9652

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Is there a dress code?

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Both weddings will be held indoors. For the Nigerian ceremony, we encourage everyone to wear traditional Nigerian attire, if able. Please see separate section "Asoebi" for more information. However, if you do not own traditional Nigerian clothing, formal attire is just fine! The color of the day is gold, so try and incorporate gold into your attire. For the American ceremony on Saturday, formal attire is appreciated. Ladies: mid-length or floor length evening gowns or cocktail dresses Gentlemen: suit and tie

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Are kids welcome?

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As much as we love your little ones, we have decided to make this is an adults-only event. Thank you for understanding!

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Is there transportation to and from the hotel for the Nigerian ceremony?

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If interested, there will be a shuttle to take guests to and from the Hyatt hotel to the Hawthorne for the Nigerian ceremony on Friday night.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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If you received an invitation for a plus one, you are welcome to bring a guest! Please be sure to include their name when you RSVP.

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What if I can’t attend the wedding?

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We’ll miss you! If you can’t make it, please let us know as soon as possible so we can finalize our guest list.