FAQs
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HOW DO I RSVP?
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Please RSVP either online via Zola or send back the RSVP card, fill out all information. Guest invited for Mehndi, Pithi and Graha Santi Pooja will receive seperate invitation and RSVP instructions.
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CAN I BRING A PLUS ONE?
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We understand our venue has limited capacity, so plus ones are only available if specifically noted on your invitation. To confirm your guest status, check the RSVP section online by entering your name, which will clearly indicate whether a plus one is included for you.
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Where to Shop for traditional Indian Guest Attire?
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There are a lot of different boutiques in North Jersey area. I grew up going up to Islelin, New Jersey (little India) for grocery shopping, clothes and jewelry shopping and amazing food. Online shopping for Indian clothes has become accessible. Each item ordered can be customize to each person.
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WHAT TIME SHOULD I ARRIVE FOR THE wedding CEREMONY?
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In order to allow everyone time to park and get settled, we ask you to arrive about 30 minutes before the Baraat start time.
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what is the dress code for the wedding ceremony?
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We would love to see our guests get dressed up with us! Our dress code is traditional Indian or Western formal. WOMEN: Traditional Indian Attire Saree (cotton, silk, or light festive fabric) Salwar kameez / Anarkali Lehenga (not too heavy or flashy) Kurti + palazzo or churidar Western / Fusion Options Long maxi dress Midi dress with sleeves Long skirt + modest blouse Wide-leg pants + tunic-style top Add a dupatta or shawl for extra coverage and respect. MEN: Traditional Indian Attire Kurta + pajama/churidar Sherwani Kurta Jacket/Vest (Nehru) Indowestern Dhoti–kurta (very traditional) Western / Fusion Options Button-down shirt + trousers Linen shirt + chinos Kurta-style shirt + pants Avoid shorts, sleeveless tops, or ripped jeans.
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ARE THERE COLORS THAT I SHOULD AVOID WEARING?
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Please refrain from wearing black for the wedding ceremony.
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What should i do between the wedding ceremony and cocktail hour?
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We will serve lunch after the wedding ceremony and have family photos. In most Indian wedding, there is typically an outfit change into more formal evening wear for the reception. This would be the perfect time to go to your hotels, get some rest, change your outfits, and return ready to party!
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WHAT TO WEAR TO the cocktail hour and RECEPTION?
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Attire: Formal Examples: Women: Indian–Fusion Looks Lehenga with a modern blouse (off-shoulder, cape, or peplum) Saree with a contemporary drape or pre-stitched saree Anarkali with a jacket or belt Sharara or palazzo set with subtle embellishment Western / Fusion Looks Evening gown (silk, satin, chiffon, or velvet) Maxi dress with embroidery or jewel tones Jumpsuit with ethnic prints or metallic accents Skirt + corset or structured top Men Formal American wear such as suits Best colors: Emerald, navy, maroon, wine, gold, champagne, blush
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What is the Mehndi(henna)?
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A Mehndi party is another prewedding celebration when the bride has the red-orange mehndi "stain" applied to her palms, back of hands, and feet. Mehndi, also known are henna, is a dye made from the henna plant. Typically held the day before the wedding, the event often has a lounge feel, with colorful pillows. Tradition says the deeper the color of the bride's mehndi, the happier the bride and groom's marriage will be. Designs symbolize various blessings, luck, joy, and love. Usually the groom's name is hidden somewhere within the intricate patterns.
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What to wear to the Mehndi(Henna)?
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Women: Indian Options Lehenga choli (lightweight, mirror work, floral prints) Anarkali or salwar suit in bright colors Kurti + sharara or palazzo pants Short kurti + skirt (easy sleeves for mehndi) Western / Fusion Options Flowy maxi dress (floral or solid jewel tones) Off-shoulder or sleeveless midi dress Crop top + long skirt Boho jumpsuit (soft fabric, loose fit) Choose short sleeves or sleeveless so mehndi application is easy. Men: Indian Options Kurta + pajama Short kurta + churidar or pants Kurta + Nehru jacket (festive but not heavy) Western/ Fusion Options Linen button-down shirt + chinos Printed shirt + neutral pants Casual blazer over a kurta-style shirt Best Colors: Green, cream, teal, pink, orange, yellow, turquoise, pastel shades
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What is the Pithi/Haldi?
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The Pithi/Haldi ceremony is when a homemade paste is applied to the bride and the groom’s body before their wedding to purify them. Traditionally, people make a paste using haldi(turmeric) and different ingredients according to their individual family customs. This paste is then applied on the bride and the groom’s face, neck, hands and feet by their near and dear ones. Significance of Haldi Ceremony: Haldi keeps buri nazar (evil eye) away Haldi provides that extra glow Haldi is used for purification of the body Haldi drives away pre-wedding jitters Haldi acts as a symbol of blessings
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What is Graha Shanti Pooja?
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Graha Shanti pooja is a Vedic ritual and ceremony performed to appease the Navagrahas (nine planets) and mitigates any negative astrological influences in a person's life. It is often performed before a wedding to ensure a happy and harmonious married life, but also before moving into a new house to remove obstacles and negative energy.
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What to wear for Pithi/Haldi & Graha Shanti pooja?
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Women: Indian Traditional Saree / Anarkali / Salwar suit (light embroidery) Cotton kurta + palazzo pants Light lehenga (daytime fabric) Western Option Flowy midi/maxi dress Indo-western jumpsuit Skirt + modern blouse Styling tip: Haldi: Remove dupatta, hair tied back Pooja: Add bindi, light dupatta, gold studs Men: Indian option Kurta + pajama Kurta + Nehru jacket (optional) Short kurta + dhoti or linen pants Western Option Kurta-style shirt + chinos Linen button-down + chinos Kurta shirt + jeans (clean look) Best Colors: Ivory, blush, sage, soft yellow, champagne, off-white, pastel green, peach, cream, marigold, soft blue