FAQs

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Why wasn’t I invited to the wedding?

Answer

We chose to keep our ceremony intentionally small — just the two of us — so we could begin this chapter in a quiet and meaningful way. Gathering with our friends and family afterward was always part of the plan, which is why celebrating with you now means so much to us.

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What if I love you guys but can’t make it to the party?

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We completely understand. Many of our friends live outside Oklahoma. This invitation also serves as our way of sharing the news that we’re getting married. Please don’t feel any pressure to travel — knowing you’re cheering us on from afar means just as much.

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Was this a last-minute decision?

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Not at all. We spent quite a bit of time thinking through how we wanted to begin married life, and this approach felt the most authentic to who we are.

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Why Asia?

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Those who know us well know we never turn down an adventure. We wanted a beginning that felt memorable and outside the ordinary. We will exchange vows and Thai the knot (laughs appreciated) on Railay Beach in Thailand before traveling north through Vietnam — from the Mekong Delta to the highlands of Sapa.

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Are you really already married?

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By the time of the Reception Party on May 2nd, we will be officially married. We’re simply saving the celebration for when we can be surrounded by the people we love.

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Will you have photos from the ceremony and trip?

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Yes — we’ll have plenty of photos and stories to share at the reception.

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So… you just ran off and did this?

Answer

More or less — but in a highly organized, spreadsheet-approved way.