FAQs

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Why so soon?

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We decided to get married and didn't wanna wait a year and half. Can you blame us?

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So what exactly is this wedding?

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We want you to join us to be a part of our celebration. We'll have a short ceremony outdoors, followed by merriment, food, drink, and dancing. Be warned-- it won't be fancy. But it will be fun.

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Why Rialto Grande?

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This is our beloved neighborhood bar, a place of countless happy hours and late nights together and with friends. It's very us and we're so happy to share it with you.

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What's the dress code?

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TLDR: "Summer Fancy." Dress smart. Dress nice. Wear your suit because you look hot in it. Just remember that the (short!) ceremony will be outside during an NYC summer. The long answer: wear something that makes you feel good. No jeans and t-shirts but anything you might say is 'dressy' is fine by us. Shoes you feel good dancing in are highly recommended.

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You Don't Have Any Actual Gifts on Your Registry...

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We don't need things, we just want to celebrate with you! If you would like to make a gift, we welcome your contribution to a fund to cover the cost of this celebration or our celebratory trip (Come on-- you know us and you know there was a trip planned). Or bring a card. But we appreciate you refraining from physical gifts. No really, we don't need anything.

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So is there gonna be food?

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Have you met us? Of course! There will be lots of finger foods and fun bites-- dumplings, empanadas, and pizza. Yes, it will be enough to fill you and you don't need to eat beforehand. If you let us know about any dietary restrictions, rest assured there will be plenty you can eat.

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I don't drink alcohol. Will there be things for me?

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Yes! The bar has a selection of NA cocktails and non-alcoholic beer and we will have seltzer and other things around.

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Anything else I should know?

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Why yes! Our ceremony is in the bar's backyard patio. There won't be seats for everyone, so we ask that if you're tall (you know who you are) or don't feel especially strong about sitting to leave seats for others.