Think comfortable, weather-conscious, and nice (not overly formal and not super casual). - Short ceremony outdoors on a lawn - Reception indoors in a heated building - November in Columbia is typically mild-to-cool (highs in the 60s to 70s, lows in the upper-40s) - Flat shoes or thicker heels work best in the grass - Layers are encouraged for the evening chill If jeans and a nice top are your comfort zone, that's perfectly acceptable; come as the version of you that feels good and still shows up for a celebration.
Yes, children are welcome! We love our families and want kids to be part of the celebration. We will have space and activities for them, but parents and guardians remain responsible for supervision throughout the event. High chairs are not available at the venue, so please plan accordingly for little ones.
Yes, we want everyone to feel included and eat safely. The menu will feature a Southern Barbeque buffet with a beef and chicken option. Other accommodations will be made when needed. Please let us know in advance if you have dietary needs such as: - Vegetarian or vegan - Gluten-free - Dairy-free - Shellfish/seafood allergies (the menu will already be seafood-free due to the bride’s allergy) - Other medical allergies or restrictions Please note any dietary needs on your RSVP, especially allergies.
Yes, the building is handicap accessible and we are happy to adjust seating for anyone using wheelchairs, walkers, or mobility aids. If you need accessible seating, please let us know ahead of time so we can reserve space comfortably for you. - An accessible drop-off point is located immediately next to handicap parking - All pathways to the building are paved - Ceremony seating will be on grass with very limited paved access to the seating area and may be uneven in places.
Your presence truly means the world to us and is the greatest gift we could receive. If you would like to give in a way that is meaningful to you: - Helping someone attend (even something as simple as offering a ride) is deeply appreciated - Donations to the Parkinson’s Foundation in memory of Deborah Kyzer are especially meaningful to our family - For those who enjoy giving a physical gift, a small registry will be available
We are heading to Miami and Key West, because they are on our ever-growing travel list and sound fun! - Hemingway history & literary stops (for him) - The adventure of reaching the furthest southern part of the continental U.S. (for her) - Conch Nation, roadside key lime pie, and the drive itself just because it’s beautiful, quirky, and unique (for both of us)
- Main parking: paved lot just before the building entry, closest and fills first - Accessible parking: three spaces directly beside the building, near the entrance - Drop-off circle: in front of main entry - Overflow parking: grass field about fifty feet past the drop-off circle (no shuttle service)
If you think you’ll enjoy the beer or wine, we strongly encourage using Uber or Lyft. Both are available in the area. We care about everyone getting home safely, so rideshare is the way to go. Please celebrate responsibly and get home comfortably.
Yes. To help us respect the venue and keep everything running smoothly, please note that the following are not permitted at the River Center at Saluda Shoals: - Glitter or confetti - Rice or birdseed - Flower petals (real or artificial) - Sparklers or open flames Thank you for helping us take good care of this beautiful space.