FAQs

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Is this a formal event?

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Yes, this is a formal event. Please come dressed to impress in your best dark romantic attire! We would love to see your costumes, but not during this event!

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What is dark romantic attire?

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A dark romantic style for a wedding embraces a moody, mysterious, and passionate atmosphere. It blends classic romance with elements of gothic and Victorian influences, creating a dramatic yet elegant ambiance. Think rich, deep colors like burgundy, plum, navy, and black, combined with opulent textures such as velvet, lace, and satin. The decor might feature candlelit settings, vintage-inspired florals, dark greenery, and antique details. This style often includes romantic, dramatic lighting and unique touches like black or deep red roses, Victorian motifs, and dark metallic accents. The overall mood is one of timeless love with a hint of intrigue, perfect for couples who want a wedding that is both romantic and unconventional. Halloween (and costumes) aside, we want you all to embrace your gothic flair!

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What is hospitality? Should I plan to be early for this?

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Hospitality at a wedding refers to the care and attention given to guests to ensure they feel welcome, comfortable, and valued throughout the event. This can include offering refreshments, providing clear directions, ensuring seating arrangements are comfortable, and addressing special needs or requests. The goal is to create an enjoyable and memorable experience for everyone attending. Please plan to arrive when the hospitality begins so you may have ample time to get comfortable and be seated for the ceremony.

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How can I help out on the big day?

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We will be using the POV camera app in addition to our photographer to capture our special moments from the perspective of our most cherished guests. Please scan the QR code for the POV app found at the entrance of the venue to take up to 15 instant shots that will be added to a collective library. The QR code for the collective library can be found in the gallery section of this website as well.

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How can I send you RSVP information?

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Please use the RSVP section of this website!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We have always wanted to have a small and intimate event to share with our most close friends and family. Please RSVP with those included on your mailed invitation.

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What is a handfasting ceremony?

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A handfasting ceremony is a traditional ritual in which two people’s hands are bound together to symbolize their union or commitment. This practice dates back to ancient Celtic cultures and was often used as a form of marriage or engagement. In modern contexts, it is sometimes incorporated into weddings as a symbolic gesture of the couple’s connection and shared life journey. During the ceremony, the couple’s hands are usually tied with a cord, ribbon, or cloth, while vows or promises are spoken. The phrase "tying the knot" is believed to originate from this ritual. The handfasting can be part of a larger wedding ceremony or a standalone event and can be customized to reflect the couple’s beliefs or values.