Brian, a studly trumpet player, and Emily, a clarinetist, both play in the Sioux City All America Concert Band. Throughout the course of a few years, Brian dropped several very subtle hints to Emily about getting together after concerts. However, Emily's parents usually attend the concerts so she was always busy. Things all changed in December of 2017, when Emily finally decided to take Brian up on one of his many hints. On January 6, 2018, Brian and Emily met for morning coffee at Panera, followed by a late night dinner at Olive Garden. From there, the rest is history!

Christmas time has always been a favorite time for Emily. Looking at Christmas lights, decorating the Christmas tree, Christmas movies, and family time are her favorites. On December 19, 2018, Brian and Emily took CJ (Emily's godson) and his sister Calena to look at Christmas lights. After a romantic dinner at Culvers, they traveled around Siouxland to look at lights. Upon returning to Emily's house after dropping the kids off at home, Brian decided to come in for a bit (which Emily felt was a little strange since it was already after 8:00 on a school night). Emily came in and started her nightly routines, while Brian stayed in the living room and turned on the Christmas tree lights. After a few minutes, Emily returned to the living room to see Brian standing by the tree. Brian nodded for Emily to join him by the tree. After exchanging a few words, Brian got down on one knee and asked Emily marry him. Emily (a little in shock) said yes, followed by "Are you serious?" a few moments later. Both of us were very excited and called our families to let them know the news.