The dress code will be black-tie optional.
We love your kids but we want our wedding to be your night off! This will be an adults-only celebration.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” yes!
The ceremony will start at 2 PM. Please feel free to arrive as early as 1:30 PM.
There is plenty of parking at both the church and reception site.
The church invites you to be fully present during the ceremony and asks that guests put away all electronic devices during mass. We have great photographers and a videographer, and we are excited to share their work with you after the wedding!
Check into your hotel room, visit downtown Chatham (half a mile from the church), or head over to Wequassett - there is a small tavern on-site called Thoreau's that opens at 4 PM.
We have arranged transportation to and from the reception for guests staying at the Pleasant Bay Village Resort. Transportation to the reception will be between 3:45 PM and 4:30 PM. Transportation home will begin at 9 PM and will be available all evening. Please note, the shuttle seats 30 but will be making multiple trips every 10 minutes. We also recommend Uber, Lyft and local taxi companies. There is more information under "Accommodations & Travel."
If our room blocks at Pleasant Bay Village and Wequassett are full, please let us know and we can request additional rooms be added. If we are unable to add additional rooms, there are plenty of other hotels, airbnbs and vrbos in the area with availability and off-season rates. We are happy to make recommendations!