We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! This will be an adult only affair.
Black-tie optional means fancy. Typically, it's a dress code for an event that's happening in the evening, where people will be dressed to the nines. If you have a suit in a dark or neutral color, go with that. Knee length dresses or full length gowns for women.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
There will not be shuttle from the hotel to the venue before and after the wedding. There is Valet at the Venue for your cars and Uber/lifts that you can order!