Sitting on the patio at O'Connors Club 20, on a fall ball Sunday with a bunch of the loud ladies I know and love. Tabitha invited a new girl over to the table to sit with us. She had come outside and sat across the patio at a table by herself, Tabitha hardly let her have a sip of beer before saying, come over here don't be sitting alone on Softball Sunday. I remember the way she had sat in her chair and popped her feet on the nearby chair like she had been hanging out at that table for years, somehow the way she looked and carried herself said, I am this independent woman who is interesting and beautiful, also a pretty awesome human being. When Tina came over and joined our table of loud lesbians.....she instantly fit right in, knew at the moment I had to get to know her more, and thought she is so much fun!