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September 17, 2022

Courtney & Kyle

    Our Adventure
    FAQs

FAQs

If you have any other questions feel free to shoot Courtney or Kyle a question at 316-258-9893!
Question

What does Roll Initiative mean?

Answer

Roll Initiative is a term in Dungeons and Dragons that indicates the start of sequenced actions requiring players take turns. It's most commonly used when players take on a challenge involving combat! Since our wedding will be heavily inspired by our love for D&D we wanted to incorporate the phrase that all players both love and fear.

Question

Why the Dungeons and Dragons theme?

Answer

Thanks to a marathon watching of Stranger Things, Kyle's interest in Dungeons and Dragons (DND) re-emerged into a full fledged passion, because nothing is done casually in this family. Diving head-first into books and the mechanics of the game, Kyle eventually joined an adventuring party hosted by family. After a few months of exciting game-play and adventuring Kyle talked Courtney into joining the group every Saturday. Together the game has led to exciting adventures (and short term grudges), and ultimately brought us closer together. Who doesn't want to beat up or steal things from their spouse in a healthy way now and again?

Question

When is my RSVP due?

Answer

Please drop your RSVP card in the mail no later that August 13th so it gets to us in time. Or you can RSVP here on the website under the RSVP tab above, or you can also e-mail us at Totty.Courtney@gmail.com by August 13th!

Question

If I'm unable to attend do I still need to RSVP?

Answer

Yep! If we don't have some type of reply by August 13th we'll be forced to track you down. Please don't make us do that in the last stretch of wedding planning.

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What should I do if I can no longer attend the wedding after sending my RSVP in as a 'Yes!'?

Answer

We understand that life happens and we all get hit with the stick some days. If something comes up, please don't hesitate to call, text, e-mail, or carrier pigeon us a message to let us know.

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Can I bring someone else with me?

Answer

If your invitation lists 'and Guest' please feel free to bring anyone you'd like above the age of 18! Otherwise, we ask only those directly listed on the invitation attend the event.

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Can I bring my children?

Answer

We love ALL of your children, however, due to the nature of our event unless your kiddo is specifically addressed on the invite we ask that they be left home. We understand if you're unable to come due to this, and we'll miss you dearly at our wedding!

Question

Will you provide transport to the venue from any of the hotels listed under Travel?

Answer

We're working with our blocked hotel to offer a shuttle from Tanganyika to the hotel and back, check back with us for what times the shuttle will run.

Question

What's the situation on taking pictures?

Answer

We ask that no photos be taken during the ceremony. We have hired a wonderful photographer named Darrin to capture our wedding, and we've put a lot of thought into the program itself. Please take the 20 minutes to be with us fully in the moment, and keep all phones/cameras put away. After the ceremony is complete feel free to take photos and share them wherever you'd like!

Question

Can I walk around the zoo after hours?

Answer

No. Tanganyika closes at 4p, and the rest of the Park is not lit at night. Most animals are in their indoor enclosures, so there's nothing to see anyways.

Question

Will there be animals at the party?

Answer

Yes! Even though the zoo itself will be closed, we'll have a few special animal visitors coming to the party. Which one's exactly are a surprise though! ;)

Question

Where are you registered?

Answer

We're registered on Amazon at the moment - https://www.amazon.com/wedding/courtney-totty-kyle-carey--september-2022/registry/1IYIY7ZIRLY0R

Question

What's for dinner?

Answer

A Feast consisting of the following will be served at approximately 6:30p: Caesar Salad with Caesar and Parmesan Ranch Dressing on the side Grilled Medallions of Beef with Rosemary Demi-Glace Grilled Chicken with New Orleans Butter Cream Sauce, Bacon, and Chives Roasted Garlic Mashed Potatoes Roasted Bell Peppers Artisan Breads and butter Please let the couple know if you will need a dietary adjustment (Gluten free, vegetarian, etc.)

Question

How about drinks, what's the alcohol situation?

Answer

In the realm of DND, ingesting drinks calls for a constitution check! Kyle and Courtney are graciously offering the following beverages for all guests (of legal age) Beer: Bud Light - Corona - Angry Orchard - Michelob Ultra Wine: Kinsen Plum Wine - Elderberry Blackberry Mead Liquor: Jack Daniels - Crown Royal - Malibu - Captain Morgan - Smirnoff - Tequila (TBD) Coke products, lemonade, iced tea, and water will also be available for those uninterested in alcohol.

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