FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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March 24, 2026 - RSVP can be done on this website.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes, Semi-Formal or Formal Attire. We welcome you to wear a shade of blue. PLEASE NO JEANS, NO SNEAKERS.... We love you, but yes, we're serious.

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I am unable to attend.

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We’ll miss you if you can’t make it, and we completely understand whatever the circumstances may be! It is still required that you select “No” on the RSVP. It’s that easy, no pressure.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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While we’d love to celebrate with everyone, we are only able to invite those explicitly named on the invitation. This is due to Phoebe’s private dining room size capacity, we greatly appreciate your understanding.

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Will there be open bar?

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Cheers! Three drinks are on the Nelsons - Sir Waffles insists! Use for beer, wine, or a cocktail of your choice. Coffee, soda and juices are always available anytime. We recommend Phoebe's Mimosas, Champagne & Peach Bellinis!

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Are kids welcome?

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Court & Des Love Tha Kidsss . However, this will be an adults-only celebration. We hope you can enjoy a night off, relax and celebrate with us!

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Is there parking for the ceremony & restaurant?

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There is street parking & paid parking garages.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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Please refrain from taking photos during the ceremony until we seal the deal. From the end of the ceremony onward, there will be plenty of opportunities to take photos! :]

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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If you have any allegries, please let us know through phone call, or text so we can make reasonable accommodations for you.

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Are you registered? Where?

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You can use the Zola link above to see our registry or give us a gift in-person. We are grateful and appreciative of anything gifted to us.