FAQs

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When should I RSVP?

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As we plan our wedding celebrations, we kindly ask that you RSVP as soon as you're able so we can coordinate with our vendors. The deadline to RSVP is April 15, 2026. If we haven’t received your RSVP by then, we will have to assume you're unable to attend. Please visit our RSVP page to respond. **Please note that the RSVP will become available once invitations are out.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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As we're keeping our wedding an intimate celebration, we’re only able to accommodate guests who are formally listed on the invitation. If you have a plus one, their name will appear on your invitation.

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Are kids invited?

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As much as we love your little ones, we have decided to have our wedding day as an adult-only celebration. If you need help with child care, please let us know and we can assist you.

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Will I be attending the ceremony?

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We’ve chosen to keep our ceremony small and intimate, with only immediate family in attendance. If you are invited to the ceremony, this will be clearly indicated on your invitation. Otherwise, we kindly ask that you join us for the celebration starting with cocktail hour. We can’t wait to celebrate with you then!

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What is the dress code?

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Ladies, we encourage floor-length gowns, midi, or tea-length dresses. Gentlemen, a suit and tie is perfect. Tuxedos are welcome but not required. Please note that May evenings on the Cape can be chilly, so we recommend bringing a jacket or wrap to stay comfortable after sunset.

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Can I take photos?

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We would love for our guests to be fully present as we say "I do," so we kindly ask that phones and cameras be put away during the ceremony. A professional photographer has been hired to capture everything, and we will gladly share those images with you once we receive them. You are welcome to take photos throughout the rest of the celebration. We just ask that you do not post any photos of us, the bride and groom, on social media until we have had the chance to do so ourselves. Thank you so much for understanding and for being part of our day!

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Where do I park?

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Since the wedding will be held at a private residence, parking is limited. We kindly ask our guests to park at the location listed on the "Schedule" page. A valet service will be available to shuttle guests to and from the house at the beginning and end of the celebration.