Shuttle services are being arranged for guests from select hotels to the Wychmere and back: – The Chatham Seafarer – The Chatham Tides – The Kingfisher Harwich Port A shuttle schedule will be provided in Spring 2026 on the wedding website. For any guests who wish to join us for the After Party, shuttles will continue to be provided from the Wychmere to the above listed hotels at the conclusion of the After Party.
Yes, valet services and ample parking is available at the Wychmere on our wedding day.
FORMAL Time to get dressed up! Think more elevated than cocktail yet just before black tie. Women: Floor length dress, dressy jumpsuit, elevated fabrics, please no white! Men: Tailored suit or jacket, neck or bow tie
Due to Cape Cod’s busy summer season, we unfortunately do not have a room block reserved at any hotel. However, we’ve recommended a few nearby places where we will be providing transportation to and from Wychmere on the day of our wedding. We encourage you to book your accommodations as soon as possible, as availability fills up quickly this time of year. You're welcome to stay wherever you'd like—just head to the Accommodations tab to view our recommended hotels and transportation details. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
The ceremony will begin promptly at 5:00 PM, so we kindly ask that guests arrive by 4:30 PM at the latest. This will ensure everyone has enough time to get settled and find a seat. Check back here in Spring 2026 for the full transportation schedule from the hotels—we’ll share all the details closer to the big day!
Yes—get ready to celebrate with us!
If your invitation was addressed to you "and guest," then yes! Otherwise, we’re keeping things more intimate—thank you for understanding.
We adore your little ones, but due to space limitations, we kindly ask that our wedding be an adults-only celebration, unless your children are specifically listed on your invitation. We hope this gives you a chance to relax and enjoy a fun evening out with us! If you're traveling with family and need childcare for the night, we recommend Summer Sitters—a trusted local service that many families love! https://www.summersitters.com/
Yes! Please visit our Registry tab for all the details.