THE HORAS! This is the section of Israeli dancing that goes on; with the chair lifts, human pyramids and flinging the groom on a sheet - it gets sweaty and crazy. Copy the following link to get a feel of what to expect - it's worth it: http://www.smashingtheglass.com/dancing-hora-jewish-wedding-traditions-explained-9/
Up to you! There will be a designated sound proof room for them to pass out in while you dance the night away. (Just let us know)
There is plenty of parking if you want to hitch a ride with a teetotaler. If you are staying out in Paarl, your accommodation may be able to organise a lift for you - just ask! If you aren't staying over, we suggest you arrange a group shuttle ahead of time. Alternatively, Uber is available in the Winelands!
Most definitely! Check out the accommodation page for recommendations. Remember the venue is about 50 minutes from the city.