Our requested attire is Garden Party! Which includes summer dresses, comfortable shoes for the grassy area, hats, florals, short collared sleeved shirts, or slacks.
We are located in a neighborhood, on Mt Helix where you can find Airbnb's, however, not a ton of hotels. La Mesa has a few Inns, but we recommend staying in Mission Valley, specifically the Hilton or Courtyard or even the Lafayette in North Park which are about a 15-20 minute drive to La Mesa.
Parking is limited in the surrounding neighborhood. Drop-off or ride-share is recommended.