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What do I wear?

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The dress code is black tie optional. Ladies are kindly asked to wear a formal dress that falls at or below the knee. Gentlemen may wear a button-up shirt with trousers and a tie, or opt for a suit if they prefer Due to the upcoming holiday season please consider wearing festive colours like dark red/burgundy, dark blue, green and purples. Please be considerate to the bride and refrain from wearing white or cremes. There will be no grass so feel free to wear your prettiest heels!

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Can I bring my child?

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As much as we love your little ones, we are keeping the wedding an adults only event. Thank you for understanding. We encourage you to use this evening as a fun date night!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited space at the venues, we’re only able to include those named on the invitation.

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Will the ceremony and reception be at the same place?

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No, the ceremony and reception are about 30 minutes apart (please see the schedule page for addresses).

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I have dietary restrictions, will you be able to accommodate them?

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Absolutely! Please fill out this form to let us know of any allergies or restrictions! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1dFwt6YOgg9sW2UvKLdsiBzk4gSbASqtL8crqxfhl450/edit

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What will the weather be like?

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The wedding is in the beginning of December so please prepare for colder weather however the ceremony and reception will be indoors with heating.

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What time should I arrive to the ceremony?

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Please arrive to the ceremony 30 minutes prior to the start time. The ceremony will start at 3:15 so please arrive at 2:45, please take into account traffic and parking.

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Is there parking available?

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Yes there is a lot of parking available! Ceremony: There will be limited parking available at the chapel however if there are no spots available please continue to drive straight and take the next left and park in the National Museum of the Marine Corps parking lot. There is a short walking path from the Meusum to the chapel that you can use to get to the ceremony Reception There is a parking lot exclusively for our use, owned by the restaurant to the left, across the street from the venue as well as behind the restaurant.

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

Please RSVP by November 1

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