The dress code for our wedding is black tie optional. Here are some tips: https://www.vogue.com/slideshow/dear-alex-black-tie-optional-wedding-dress-code
We cannot accommade additional guests. The people named on your invitation, when sent, are welcome to celebrate with us. Your invitation will be made out to [Your Name and Guest] if we are expecting more than just you.
We love you and your little ones, but only Mom and Dad are invited to celebrate with us. We encourage you to use this as a date night out and have some fun.
The drinks are on us; the hangover is on you.