FAQs
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This is my first LGBTQ wedding! What do I need to know?
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Welcome! If you're invited to our wedding, we are excited to celebrate with you. We trust that you'll help make our wedding a welcoming and fun environment for all our guests. Erin identifies as trans/non-binary and uses they/them pronouns. This means that you should use they/them pronouns when talking about Erin! If you have questions about how to use gender-neutral pronouns, check out this website: https://www.mypronouns.org/they-them. We know this takes some practice, so don't be afraid to try -- just correct yourself if you mess up! We also have many trans and non-binary friends! We ask that you don't assume the identities of people you don't know yet. We also ask that you try not to use honorifics like "sir," "ma'am," or "miss."
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What precautions are being taken around COVID?
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We are requiring all attendees eligible to receive the vaccine to be fully vaccinated and to have completed the recommended quarantine. The entire ceremony and cocktail hour will be outside and spacious. The reception will take place in an open air barn. However, if the weather does not cooperate we may need to close these doors for warmth. All of the wait staff are vaccinated and will be wearing masks throughout the event. We are monitoring the ongoing concerns around variants, etc and will send updates as to any changes.
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Do I need to vaccinated to attend?
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Yes. We would like to celebrate mask-less, so please only attend if you are fully vaccinated against COVID-19. Children do not need to be vaccinated and we will have a few children attending that are not of age to receive the vaccine. Of course, you may wear a mask if you choose but we are not requiring this.
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please let us know your plans by August 31st.
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Can I bring a date?
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Please only bring the people listed on your invitation! If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?
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Unfortunately, no, we don't have transportation provided. If you didn't drive, Uber and Lyft are available and will take you to the venue.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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There is! Parking attendants will show you where to drop off your guests and park at the venue. Be safe, our venue is fine with you leaving your car overnight if you prefer to take an Uber home.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please plan to arrive around 3:30pm so you have time to park, find a seat, and say hello to friends and family before the ceremony begins at 4pm.