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What date should I RSVP by?What date should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by September 1st, 2025.

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What are the addresses of the wedding ceremony and reception venues? Are they wheelchair accessible?What are the addresses of the wedding ceremony and reception venues? Are they wheelchair accessible?

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Our ceremony and reception will both be held at Old Oaks Winery. The address is 10814 1st Street West, Milan, IL. 61264. Once you arrive, you'll see signage directing you to the back patio/yard where the ceremony will take place. Venue is fully accessible.

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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Our ceremony will be outdoors under the oak trees, while cocktail hour and reception will have both indoor/outdoor options (weather permitting). Guests will have to walk in grass so use caution with stiletto or any thin heels.

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What's the dress code for your wedding?What's the dress code for your wedding?

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Our wedding is cocktail attire, and for October in the Midwest, we suggest: mid length dresses, elegant separates, sport coats & pants or suits.

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Am I allowed to bring a plus-one?Am I allowed to bring a plus-one?

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We are not allowing additional plus-ones to our wedding, as we'd like to keep the guests list just to those who know us well. The name of every guest invited to attend is clearly listed on your invitation/RSVP and no additional guests can be accommodated.

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Am I allowed to bring my children?Am I allowed to bring my children?

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We love your children, but due to the wedding being located at a winery, we are asking for no guests 13 years or younger attend the wedding.

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Are there any colors or styles you'd prefer guests to wear?Are there any colors or styles you'd prefer guests to wear?

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Our colors include Succulent Green, Dusty Blue, Navy Blue, and Cream but we would love to see you in any color(s) that make you happiest!

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What should I do if I don't make it into the room block?What should I do if I don't make it into the room block?

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If you miss the deadline to reserve a room in our blocks, reach out to the hotel and mention our wedding anyway - they may be able to accommodate you with our discount in a room outside of our block. If not, you can find additional nearby accommodations on our travel page.

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What time should I arrive at your wedding ceremony?What time should I arrive at your wedding ceremony?

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Guests are welcome to start arriving at the venue starting at 2:30 PM. Ceremony will start sharply at 3:30 PM.

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I have more questions about your wedding, who can I contact?I have more questions about your wedding, who can I contact?

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Kindly contact our wedding coordinator Lisa Syring at 563-506-0993 or lisa@cherishtheday.net