WOMEN: Do not wear gold, champagne, silver, etc. colored dresses. The bridesmaids will be wearing those colors. And obviously, don't wear white. But just look your best. Dresses, skirts, nice pants w/ a blouse. Whatever is comfy and classy. MEN: Casual enough that you don't have to wear a suit coat, but please no polo shirts.
As tradition in our religion, we will be getting sealed in the Oakland temple on the morning of our wedding. The temple is a place where only people who share the same faith as us can enter, so as to not leave anyone out, we are having a wedding ceremony outside the temple to which you are all invited to. If you're part of the wedding party (or if you want to) you should be there to take pictures at around 11:45am. If not, we'll see you at the public ceremony!
The Oakland temple is the first temple both of us had ever been to. It's where Jared was sealed to his family after he was adopted, and it's where we will both be sealed together!