Yes, most likely, as this will be the most convenient and efficient way to get around. Morgan Hill/Gilroy do have CalTrain stations, however the train hours are wonky due to being mainly for weekday commuters.
October in the South Bay is usually quite lovely. Expect sun with daytime highs in the 70s, with it cooling off to the 50s at night.
Whatever you want! Though we are officially saying "cocktail attire" for wedding day dress code. Bring a layer, as the wedding/reception will be entirely outdoors and the evening temps could drop down into the 50s. We will have heaters, as well as the dance floor, to help keep people warm! For ladies, we recommend flats or chunky heels/wedges due the terrain (grass/dirt/gravel).
We will have space for some parking on our property the day of the wedding, but there will also be a shuttle to/from the Hampton Inn in Morgan Hill for those people who prefer not to drive, or who plan to imbibe.
Yes, a shuttle will run from the Hampton Inn in Morgan Hill, where we have reserved a block of rooms. See "Travel" section for link to Hampton Inn hotel rate.
Kids are welcome to attend. We understand each family will have their own preferences and logistics to manage, so we support whatever works for you! If you do plan to bring kids, please make sure to RSVP for them as well.