FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

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Spring Dressy | Wedding Casual - No jeans, sneakers, sweatpants, t-shirts, under-tanks, basketball shorts… there will be professional photos taken 😁

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What will the ceremony be like?

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Our ceremony (and marriage) is biblically based; God will be front and center.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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15-30 minutes prior to the scheduled start time. Doors to the church will be closed at exactly 3:30pm CST.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly request that guests do not take photos during the event. We have professional photographers to capture every moment so we can unplug and enjoy!

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When should I RSVP by?

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FEBRUARY 10th, 2026 :)

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Can I bring a date?

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Please refer to the addressed envelope of your invitation; only those listed on the invitation are invited to the wedding & reception. Along with our location change, we appreciate your understanding.

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Are kids allowed?

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Please refer to the addressed envelope of your invitation; only those listed on the invitation are invited to the wedding & reception. Thank you for your understanding.

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Will there be alcohol?

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Nope! Our wedding will be a dry wedding. There is no alcohol permitted on any of the church property.

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Is there a dance floor?

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There will not be dancing! Because of our reception space and our preference for a different style of celebration, there will not be dancing. Instead, we’ll connect through games and fellowship.

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What can we expect for the reception?

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This will be a little less traditional and very intentional! We’ll share a meal with all of our favorite people, play a newlywed game, enjoy table trivia, cut cake, and share dessert. For those who prefer not to participate in trivia, additional table games will be available. After trivia (or instead of it), guests are invited to enjoy yard games and a s’mores area outdoors!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes!! Please let us know ASAP so we can accommodate you!❤️

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Are you registered? Where?

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On Zola!

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What happened to Tennessee? Why no alcohol? Why no dancing? Etc. Etc...

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We shifted our wedding from Tennessee to our home church in Indiana for a handful of reasons, but the biggest one was this: the further we planned, the more it felt like the focus was drifting away from our union under God and toward expectations, social status, social norms, and performance. We don’t want a day built on spectacle. We want a day built on presence and authenticity. We don’t dance, we don’t do recreational drugs, and we rarely drink; we're just a couple of fun nerds. A reception centered around drinking and dancing just isn’t us. It doesn’t reflect who we are or how we want to celebrate this next chapter. We don’t feel called to a night of “checking the boxes” of what a wedding should look like. What does matter deeply to us is fellowship, connection, community, and intimate relationships with our people. Our friends are our family. We don’t care about the weather that week, or tradition, or what the world says a wedding is supposed to be. We care about building a village rooted in presence, real conversation, shared life, and a willingness to wade knee deep in the mud with the people we love. The only way to do that, in marriage, in community, in life, is through connection. And that is the heart of why we chose home.

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Will there be time for us to catch up at the wedding?

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We would love to spend unhurried time with each of you, and we encourage connecting with us before the wedding day whenever possible. If we haven’t already reached out, please feel free to text us to set something up. We’re so excited to celebrate with everyone and share moments and conversations throughout the day! While we won’t be able to step away for longer, in-depth conversations, we’re grateful to celebrate together as the day centers on our marriage and shared joy.