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Cindy & Stephen

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Come join us on our adventure!

Stephen Lindsley

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Cindy Pham

May 25, 2024

Singer Island, FL

How we met

First come the Dog, then comes the girl

Amidst the challenges of a global pandemic surround by the homeless, lockdowns, and other unknown elements within the Bay Area, CA, Steve and Cindy discovered a unique bond in the viral virtual realm that ultimately led them to embark on a real-world adventure. Their story unfolded against the backdrop of uncertainty, weaving a tale of resilience, connection, and the promise of a brighter future. Their initial connection blossomed online, as they navigated the complexities of the pandemic's restrictions, dated profile pictures, and the newest 21st century phenomenon known as catfishing. Through shared interests and virtual conversations, they found solace in each other's company, transcending the limitations imposed on physical distancing from overlord Fauci. As their bond deepened, they decided to take the next step and turn their digital connection into a tangible experience. The destination for their first in-person meeting was set – Pacifica Beach, CA. The allure of the scenic coastline and the promise of a refreshing hike provided the perfect backdrop for a memorable rendezvous. Secretly, both of them also knew the rules: no dinner on the first meet, something outdoors with adequate light, and to always drive yourself in case things didn't work out. The day arrived, marked by a mix of excitement and anticipation. Seated in her car at the Pacifica Beach parking lot, Cindy found herself grappling with the decision to meet this stranger – there were some red flags - cheeky profile responses, pictures with elephants, and "Try anything once but heroin" tag line. A momentary pause that left Cindy questioning the wisdom of her choice, and if he was actually kidding. Nevertheless, she pushed aside her apprehensions and stepped out of the car, heading towards the entrance of the hike. Steve meanwhile had been a few minutes late, and so upon arrival had immediately hopped out of the car to move to the trailhead. Once he arrived at the trailhead, someone was waiting there. However, being the experienced noodler that he was, something was off. The person waiting there had a hat covering her face, he was puzzled and thought that he might the girl waiting on the trailhead does not look like the girl from the photos he was supposed to met. Apprehensive, he pinged his location to Cindy right as she stepped out of her car. There, under the vast blue sky, stood a tall man in a vibrant red/blue shirt, unmatched hat adorned with of long beard. As Cindy approached him, a quiet prayer escaped her lips, a plea for divine protection on this unconventional rendezvous, while Steve was just extremely relieved as they both waived and acknowledged each other. Slowly, with each step along the trail, their initial nervousness dissipated, replaced by a growing comfort in each other company. As conversation unfolded organically, they found themselves discussing topics they were both familiar as former accountants: accrual jokes, personal liabilities, and how they enjoyed managing assets. The trail became a metaphorical of the comfort in the unknown and the excitement for an adventure ahead. Along the trail they shared laughter and found each other thoroughly enjoying the moments together. As they concluded the hike both decided to extended the date and made their way down to the beach to watch sunset. With the soothing sound of the waves provided a backdrop to continued their conversation. It was here, that they both delved into life's intricacies. Steve shared snapshots of his world, including his eagerly anticipated adoption of Dagny, a pup he was waiting to welcome into his life over chicharones and a bag of cherries. Needless to say it was a successful first date as they drove away feeling excited for what was to come. Since that very first date they became inseparable from each other and their pup Dagny, building towards the dreams they joked about on their very first date and the adventures they dreamed of.

For all the days along the way
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